that's basically my problem, by default I look very "feminine" so people tend to interpret me as a woman. I'm perfectly content with my face and my voice and basically my whole body (except my chest, though that's not even entirely because of dysphoria), but the problem is, because of that, I'll never pass. that's why pronoun pins are handy, mine is kinda small but it's green with black lettering. I really feel for you, though I imagine your situation is worse just because people tend to not use they/them much in general (I always use they/them unless I know for sure what pronouns the person uses). it really does suck when people base gender off of looks and biology though, I see those all as separate things personally and I wish that was the norm.
on a different topic, has anyone else ever experienced the pipeline of going from fully ace (or even apothi-ace) to discovering you're demisexual? it's been interesting for me, for sure. I find that I'm becoming more comfortable with it, but I am still incredibly modest and I don't like to talk about that kind of thing at all. I guess it's a very sensitive and private topic for me, and I only reserve it for that one person who is somehow close enough to be to bring out that side of me.
